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Sophie Anderton says child sex abuse forced her into drugs

British model and reality TV star Sophie Anderton has accepted to drug charges, days after she was caught snorting cocaine on camera and has blamed the drug habit on her “child sex abuse”.
The 32-year-old, who admitted to having spent nearly 100,000 pounds on coke, has also confessed resorting to prostitution for 15,000 pounds a night [...]

Australia apologises for child abuse

Australian authorities delivered a formal apology on Saturday to the many thousands of people who were abused in state-run orphanages and children’s homes in past decades. New South Wales Premier Nathan Rees unveiled a memorial in Sydney to children who suffered in care from the 1930s to

U.S. names head of prisoner abuse probe

The White House says it will directly supervise a new unit that is being set up to interrogate high value terror detainees. The announcement came on Monday as the Obama administration named a federal prosecutor who will investigate past cases of detainee mistreatment.

Is British government colluding in torture?

Ministers have denied allegations of colluding in the abuse of terror suspects, but say it’s impossible to remove all risk. What do you think?

Tolerating abuse

Who would accept the torture of others?

OPINIONS on whether the use of torture should be prohibited appear to vary widely around the world. According to opinion polls conducted early in 2008 respondents in western European democracies such as Britain and Spain were most hostile to the idea of even some degree of use of torture, whereas residents in big but poorer countries such as Nigeria, Turkey and India seemed most willing to tolerate the idea (perhaps in these three cases because of violent domestic threats to political stability). Surprisingly, democracies are not necessarily more hostile to the practice than non-democracies. According to the polls, Americans are more willing to tolerate the use of torture than are Chinese.

Gerald Bracey: Obama and Duncan Champion Test Abuse

The President of the United States and his Secretary of Education are violating one of the most fundamental principles concerning test use: Tests should be…

Releasing Detainee Photos Would Bring More Harm To Victims: Commentary

DESPITE demands by human rights advocates that photos documenting abuse of military detainees be made public, the Senate last month passed legislation to block their release. The legislation is now before the House. President Obama supports th…

Loose Reins On Nurses In Drug Abuse Program

Over 4 1/2 years, Melony Currier had been discovered high in her car at a Hollywood hospital, stolen anesthetics at a San Gabriel Valley hospital, been convicted of burglary after taking more drugs from the same hospital and flunked a drug tes…

Sexual healing

Can abuse victims be happy sexual partners?

Recently arguments between me and my partner of three years have got out of control. We haven’t had decent sex in ages. He accuses me of always talking about it, and I say it’s because we don’t do it enough. We were both abused as kids so I know that sex will feel a bit weird. Can people like us really stay together? And do people need to have sex every day to be happy?

Many survivors of childhood sexual abuse have learned to equate love with disharmony, betrayal and conflicted feelings – and both of you are re-enacting this pattern. You must immediately change. You could try a survivors’ group or The Courage To Heal Workbook by Laura Davis.

As for sexual frequency, don’t feel pressure to keep up with your friends’ (often inflated) tales. Couples should do what works for them, with an emphasis on quality rather than quantity.

And be aware that because of your abuse you see your sexuality as a shame-based experience – until you can feel safe during love-making you will continue to push each other away. But people with such challenges absolutely can – and do – become healthy enough for long-lasting and fulfilling relationships.

In the meantime, understand that arguing is a way of remaining tethered to abuse, so be gentle with each other. Have one deep discussion about the way forward, then support each other’s healing and growth.

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders.

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Sexual healing

Can abuse victims be happy sexual partners?

Recently arguments between me and my partner of three years have got out of control. We haven’t had decent sex in ages. He accuses me of always talking about it, and I say it’s because we don’t do it enough. We were both abused as kids so I know that sex will feel a bit weird. Can people like us really stay together? And do people need to have sex every day to be happy?

Many survivors of childhood sexual abuse have learned to equate love with disharmony, betrayal and conflicted feelings – and both of you are re-enacting this pattern. You must immediately change. You could try a survivors’ group or The Courage To Heal Workbook by Laura Davis.

As for sexual frequency, don’t feel pressure to keep up with your friends’ (often inflated) tales. Couples should do what works for them, with an emphasis on quality rather than quantity.

And be aware that because of your abuse you see your sexuality as a shame-based experience – until you can feel safe during love-making you will continue to push each other away. But people with such challenges absolutely can – and do – become healthy enough for long-lasting and fulfilling relationships.

In the meantime, understand that arguing is a way of remaining tethered to abuse, so be gentle with each other. Have one deep discussion about the way forward, then support each other’s healing and growth.

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders.

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Cruel truths from Basra

Abuse of Iraqi prisoners reveals a lack of discipline among UK troops and arrogance at the MoD

In the summer of 2002, as British troops were preparing to invade Iraq, a senior army officer emailed a colleague about a meeting that had taken place on how to handle prisoners. The officer noted that the meeting was addressed by a US army captain “who told us all about what they were doing in Bagram [in Afghanistan] and Guantánamo“. The British officer continued: “It did enable me to remind the assembled crowd … not to get too wound up in prisoners’ rights at the expense of intelligence.”

This telling exchange is among many heard over the past two weeks at the thinly attended public inquiry, adjourned today until the autumn, into the death of Baha Mousa, a Basra hotel receptionist, in the custody of British soldiers in September 2003. The inquiry has already painted a picture of a military chain of command either unsure of what interrogation techniques are prohibited under domestic and international law, or willing to ignore them. As far back as 1965, the joint intelligence committee issued a directive to military interrogators. Apart from moral considerations, it said: “Torture and physical cruelty of all kinds are professionally unrewarding, since a suspect may be persuaded to talk, but not to tell the truth.”

British and US military interrogators and security and intelligence agencies chose to forget this axiom as they captured suspected insurgents in Iraq and Afghanistan. They were also ignorant, we are told, of past controversies. After evidence of abuse in Northern Ireland, Edward Heath told the Commons in 1972 that five techniques – wall-standing, hooding, subjection to noise, sleep deprivation, and deprivation of food and drink – would be banned “in any future operations worldwide, unless parliament decided otherwise”. A hitherto secret document released at the Baha Mousa inquiry heard that senior British officers responsible for the conduct of military operations claimed they were unaware of the ruling “until it was raised in the last two weeks”. The document was dated 17 May 2004, well after Mousa’s death but a few days after another incident involving allegations of abuse of Iraqi civilians.

The inquiry heard how a British soldier screamed at hooded Iraqi prisoners, and others made Iraqis cry out in an “orchestrated choir”. According to hitherto unreported evidence at the inquiry, one soldier who happened to be passing a room in the British detention centre in Basra described seeing an Iraqi detainee “kneeling on the floor with his legs crossed behind him and his hands tied behind his back. He was hooded and had his head bowed. There was a soldier beating him really hard. The detainee had his hands tied behind his back, he couldn’t fight back.”

The inquiry heard how another detainee “was struggling to maintain the stress position and [a British soldier] was screaming at him, ‘Sit up, Grandad!’. A large soldier was kneeing this detainee hard in the back … All of the detainees were in a state of distress. They were shaking, whimpering and crying, and they had soiled themselves. He says there was a really strong smell and there were pools of faeces and urine.”

As the inquiry was getting under way in London, the Ministry of Defence was being forced in the high court to concede a separate independent inquiry into allegations that British soldiers mutilated and murdered civilians in Amara, north of Basra, on 14 May 2004. It was forced to do so after it infuriated senior judges by withholding from the court vital evidence, including correspondence with ministers, about the incident.

These incidents, and there may be more, reveal a worrying lack of discipline among British soldiers and arrogance among senior defence officials. The good thing is that lawyers, judges and human rights laws are subjecting their activities to unprecedented scrutiny.

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Irish Catholics want accountability

Continued revelations of abuse by priests in Ireland has left many Catholics in despair at the slow pace of reform

A mere two months after the Ryan Commission report on sexual abuse of children in religious run institutions revealed sickening brutality and depravity, the Roman Catholic Church in Ireland is facing yet another report on clerical sexual abuse.

Set up in March 2006, the state-appointed Dublin Archdiocese commission investigated how child sex abuse allegations against a representative sample of 46 priests in Dublin were handled by 19 bishops between 1 January 1975 and 30 April 2004. Although the commission’s report has been delivered to the minister for justice, publication may be delayed because three abuse cases involving priests or former priests are currently before the courts.

The report is expected to be harshly critical of bishops who appeared to focus on protecting the church’s reputation at the expense of children’s safety. Since his appointment, the Archbishop of Dublin, Diarmuid Martin‘s cooperation and openness has been considered to be exemplary, in stark contrast to some bishops. Early this year, the church’s own child protection body revealed that some other dioceses were still not fully following child protection guidelines, despite repeated assurances that they were doing so.

Unlike most of his episcopal colleagues, Archbishop Martin worked in Rome during the period under investigation, but mere absence from Ireland does not explain his stance. Aside from being personally horrified at the scale of abuse, it is likely that he has realised that until every last appalling detail is in the public domain, and until it is clear that there is a new, rigorous and child-centred approach in place, the Irish church cannot hope even to begin to regain any credibility.

The scandals have revealed divisions in the Irish church, once thought of as monolithic. Some religious orders were allegedly upset that Archbishop Martin reported to the Vatican on the Ryan Commission findings without consulting them, and by his suggestion that religious orders should pay more in compensation. Some of Archbishop Martin’s priests also report feeling extremely vulnerable because of a belief that any complaint, no matter how obviously false, will result in the accused priest being asked to “step aside” from ministry, sometimes for years.

The damage to the Catholic church has been incalculable. From the beginning, there has been a heartfelt desire among Catholics to see real leadership and accountability. Many have simply walked away. Even devout Catholics are losing patience with an institution that does not seem capable of sufficient reform. At the same time, there is sympathy for the many priests who have never abused.

Whatever the internal woes of the Catholic church, the most important thing, as one clerical abuse victim, Andrew Madden, has said, is that we do not have children of today telling their stories of clerical abuse in 20 or 30 years time. While the Catholic church will never return to its former position of power in Irish society, if it is to have any credibility as a moral commentator, it will have to demonstrate that there will never be a repeat of the darkest days of the past.

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Ireland braces for church abuse report

Dublin Diocese Commission to name up to 15 priests said to have abused up to 450 children in capital over 35 years

A report into clerical child abuse in Dublin released later today will “shock and horrify” the whole of Ireland, a leading figure in the Catholic church has admitted.

The Dublin Diocese Commission will name up to 15 priests they say were guilty of abusing children in the Irish capital over a 35-year-period.

Up to 450 victims have also been identified by the commission which will present the report to the Irish justice minister Dermot Ahern.

The Irish government now has to decide whether it should publicly name the clergy identified in the report.

“The report will shock and horrify Ireland,” according to Archbishop Diarmuid Martin, who played a key role in setting up the investigation and is seen by the Vatican as someone determined to reform the image of the Catholic church in Ireland.

It will name 15 priests, 11 of whom have been convicted through the Irish courts and four who are already well known.

The report was established in March 2006 and examined child sex abuse allegations against 46 priests and how each case was handled by 19 Dublin bishops between 1975 and 2004.

Part of the report will heavily criticise a so-called power culture among the Dublin bishops who have been accused of not taking the allegations seriously.

Ahern is understood to be preparing to hand over the report to the Republic’s attorney general for legal advice.

The report deals with three men currently facing court cases and in two instances these men have served sentences in connection with child abuse, while a third has pleaded guilty to the latest charges against him. The men are not likely to go on trial until April next year.

In order to avoid prejudicing the cases the attorney general Paul Gallagher may publish the report but give the three men in question pseudonyms.

Of the 19 bishops investigated in the report, seven are deceased.

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Pentagon Seeks To Overhaul Afghan Prison Where Detainee Abuse Occurred

A sweeping United States military review calls for overhauling the troubled American-run prison here as well as the entire Afghan jail and judicial systems, a reaction to worries that abuses and militant recruiting within the prisons are helpi…

Robert Fuller: President Obama’s Politics of Dignity

President Obama has yet to tell us how to repair our broken institutions. But he may be doing something equally important. He may be showing us the way.

Laureate backs school vetting scheme

Anthony Browne takes conciliatory line following calls to boycott school visits over police checks

New children’s laureate Anthony Browne has attempted to calm the storm that has blown up among children’s authors over a new scheme requiring them to be vetted before visiting schools.

Philip Pullman described the vetting scheme as “outrageous, demeaning and insulting” to the Guardian on Friday and said he wouldn’t be appearing in schools again because of it, while former children’s laureate Anne Fine said it was “demeaning” and “unhealthy”, also ruling out appearing in UK schools. “It’s a sledgehammer to miss a nut,” she said on Friday.

The Vetting and Barring Scheme is managed by the Independent Safeguarding Authority, which was set up in response to the 2002 Soham murders, committed by former school caretaker Ian Huntley. It kicks off this October, requiring the 11.3m people across the education, care and health industries who work with children to register – for a £64 fee – on a national database.

Authors including Michael Morpurgo, Quentin Blake and Anthony Horowitz have all hit out at the scheme, saying along with Pullman and Fine that it meant they wouldn’t be appearing in schools in the future. “All of us are constantly invited to do tours of schools abroad. If we can no longer enthuse British children about reading then I’m happy to go to more sensible places like Australia, New Zealand, America, France and Italy,” said Fine on Friday.

Pullman, talking on BBC Radio’s Today programme this morning, asked why he “should have to pay £64 to a government agency to be given a certificate saying ‘I’m not a paedophile’. It’s so ludicrous that it’s almost funny, but it’s not funny, it’s actually rather dispiriting and sinister.”

Browne, however, has taken a more sanguine approach to news of the scheme. “I feel that as writers we shouldn’t necessarily be granted an exemption,” he said. “If all people who work with children have to be vetted by the police then we shouldn’t be an exception. It seems a bit odd that we have to pay for it, though.”

Gillian Cross, author of The Demon Headmaster, agreed with Browne, telling the Bookseller that anything that could be done to stop child abuse was worth it. “I understand entirely why people are enraged about the whole child abuse suspicion frenzy, which is particularly hard on men. It is nevertheless true that many children are abused. Theirs is the real suffering, and if checking can help to prevent that, I’m not opposed to it,” Cross said.

And posting on the Bookseller’s website, children’s author Robert Muchamore wrote that accusations that the scheme was “a stealth tax, or part of some Orwellian state apparatus that puts a barrier between children and adults is absurdly over the top”.

“You pay £64, they run a criminal records check and you get a piece of paper to say that you have no prior convictions related to mistreatment of children. It isn’t a cure for child abuse, but it does create a barrier to stop past offenders working with kids. That seems perfectly reasonable to me,” he wrote, adding on Twitter that he was “irritated at another round of whinging by the usual grey-haired mafia of ‘renowned’ kids’ authors”.

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Kids recant abuse claims after dad jailed 20 years

VANCOUVER, Wash. — Former Vancouver police officer Clyde Ray Spencer spent nearly 20 years in prison after he was convicted of sexually molesting his son and daughter. Now, the children say it never happened.

Matthew Spencer and Kathryn…