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5 Strategies for Personal Empowerment in Difficult Situations


My guess is that most of us would rather not spend much time in a hospital, unless you’re a doctor or nurse and love what you do. I’ve spent a day and a half in St. Mary’s Hospital in Waterbury, CT, with my disabled brother Mark who is waiting for surgery to remove an infected knee implant. So, I’ve had the chance to remember why I really like to avoid hospitals.

No matter how much effort goes into the decor, the cleaning, and the landscaping, it’s really hard to offset the effects of the negative energies that exist because hospitals are places with a problem focus. Illness is negative energy. Patients are scared–more negative energy. Family members are concerned–more negative energy. Doctors and nurses are typically overworked, at times doing work that involves risks to human life and dealing with some overwhelming and unpleasant situations. Whew! Lots of negative energy!

I’ve found myself shifting into survival mode with my own energy so I endure this hospital experience. Here are some things I have been doing:

  • I look for the good in every employee I encounter, even the nurse’s aide who won’t make eye contact.
  • I ask for what I need or what Mark needs as our needs arise.
  • I don’t take personally employee behaviors that aren’t as pleasant, helpful or supportive as I would like.
  • I stay calm even when I feel scared or annoyed so I can be a grounding presence and bright light for Mark.
  • I take lunch outside so I can shake off some of the negative energy I have absorbed.
  • I remember my life outside of the hospital and remind myself that this experience is only temporary.
  • I focus on how much I love Mark and remain detached even when he’s grumpy and reactive.
  • I appreciate the overall cleanliness of the building.
  • I note and feel grateful for every friendly person I encounter, from the person who made my salad at Subway to the receptionist who validated my parking ticket.
  • I congratulate myself for my patience with Mark and the waiting despite my own fears about Mark’s situation.

I figure if I have to be here, if this is where I’ve been led to make a difference, I am going to do whatever I can to counter the negative energies that I have no control over with positive energies I do have control over. I can control my thoughts and my attitudes, and manage my emotions and behaviors.

When you find yourself in situations where you are exposed to negative energies over which you have no control, remember that you can control your own sources of positive energy if you so choose. Here are some ideas.

  1. Look for the good that does exist. Feel grateful for it. When you deliberately look for good, you will find it. When you focus on negatives, you’ll find it. Wouldn’t you rather have a steady diet of good energies? They will help you more effectively cope with the challenges.
  2. Avoid reacting to others and taking their behaviors personally.                Pia Mellody, author of Facing Codependence, once said that people’s reactions have more to do with them and their history than they do with you, unless you’ve been offensive. So, observe others and wonder about their behaviors, but know that what you’re getting from them could have absolutely nothing to do with you.
  3. Stay in your own power by remaining calm even when others are not. “Shut your mouth and breathe,” is another of my favorite reminders from Pia Mellody. Doing that will help you stay grounded and avoid saying or doing anything you might regret later.
  4. Ask for what you need from people who are capable of giving it to you. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. Only you know what you need. And, it is empowering to respectfully make your needs known.
  5. Don’t make requests of people who are incapable of responding appropriately to your requests. That’s a setup for disappointment and will only fuel your anger.

What would you add?

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Baby P report: staff need training to spot abuse

Many NHS doctors and nurses are inadequately prepared to spot and act upon signs of child abuse or neglect, a damning report on the aftermath of the Baby P scandal warns.

The detailed survey by the Care Quality Commission exposes a failure inside the health service even among some paediatric specialists and GPs to get to grips with the challenges of safeguarding children.

It says many clinicians have not received up-to-date mandatory training in child protection, while health visitors are overwhelmed by excessive case loads.

The review was ordered after it emerged that NHS staff in Haringey, north London, including some employed by Great Ormond Street children’s hospital, saw Baby Peter, as he is now known, on 35 separate occasions in his short life and, on all but one occasion, failed to realise he was in danger.

Highlighting the inadequate response by health trusts, Cynthia Bower, the commission’s chief executive, said: “Immediately after the Baby P tragedy, everyone agreed that everything possible must be done to prevent a recurrence. This must not prove to be hollow rhetoric. The NHS has got to play its part by getting these safeguarding measures in place.

“It is clear that safeguarding has not been as high on the agenda of trust boards as it should have been … In some cases NHS staff have not been given the support they need in terms of training and clear procedures for handling concerns. If that were to change, it would be an appropriate legacy for Baby Peter.”

The 17-month-old Baby Peter, who had been also monitored by social workers and police, was seen by a consultant paediatrician, Sabah Al-Zayyat, two days before he died in Haringey in early 2007. She had not been not given the full picture of Peter’s history before the examination, although a subsequent internal Great Ormond Street inquiry said she should have identified his injuries as signs of abuse.

After he died, Peter was found to have serious injuries including a broken back and fractured ribs. His mother, her boyfriend and a lodger were later sentenced for causing or allowing the child’s death.

The report says that only 54% of eligible NHS staff have received basic child protection training, a “worryingly low” proportion. According to the inspectors, in 20 of the primary care trusts surveyed, as few as 10% of GPs were up-to-date with what was said to be a “basic” level of training.

On health visitors, the investigation discovered that 29 out of 152 primary care trusts were dealing with caseloads of more than 500 children each, “well above [the] recommendation of 400″.

Among other findings were that only 37% of trusts have a dedicated budget for training staff in child protection issues, while 65% of GPs either do not have appropriate training or there is no data to say whether they do or don’t. Only 58% of A&E or urgent care staff have adequate training in child protection.

Last year about one in 10 GP consultations were with children aged 14 or under; nearly three million children under 16 attend A&E departments ever year.

In 2008-09, the year that the Baby P scandal erupted, more NHS trusts did admit that they could not comply with national core standards – one of which deals with child protection. The numbers declaring compliance fell marginally from nearly 97% to 94% – suggesting a slight increase in self-criticism.

More than one in 10 trusts “did not appear to comply with the statutory requirement to carry out criminal records bureau checks for all staffemployed since 2002,” the report said. “We are particularly concerned with the large proportion of trusts that do not have a process for following up children who miss outpatient appointments.”

Commenting on the findings, Jo Webber, deputy director of policy at the NHS Confederation, said: “Despite the progress many NHS organisations have made, and the commitment of individuals working in the health service, there is clearly much more that can be done to make sure children are protected properly. This means promoting a culture of questioning amongst staff.”

The Liberal Democrat health spokesman, Norman Lamb, said: “It’s disgraceful that some parts of the NHS are still failing to comply with basic child protection requirements like carrying out criminal record checks on staff.”

The health secretary, Andy Burnham, said: “I want trusts and PCTs to use this report to support a coordinated programme of action to assure and sustain essential levels of safeguarding in activities relating to children.”

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Zambia prosecutes editor of Post

Chansa Kabwela, editor of the Post (image from Post website)

An editor at Zambia’s biggest-selling newspaper has been charged with distributing obscene materials relating to a health sector crisis.

The Post sent harrowing images of a woman giving birth in the street to government ministers to highlight the effects of a health sector strike.

In May and June, Zambia’s hospitals and clinics ground to a halt as doctors and nurses went on strike over pay.

An official government spokesman declined to comment on the case.

The trial of the Lusaka-based Post’s female news editor, Chansa Kabwela, is due to start at the beginning of August.

‘Too gruesome to publish’

Pictures of the woman giving birth, to a child which subsequently died, were taken by a family member and handed to the Post.

"Unfortunately the president and his ministers and some of his supporters have chosen to ignore the plight of that woman"

Sam Mujuda
Post deputy editor-in-chief

Nine months pregnant and unable to afford private care, she had gone into labour.

But with her baby emerging feet first, she was turned away from two clinics and then Zambia’s largest hospital.

Sam Mujuda, the Post’s deputy editor-in-chief, described the pictures as "particularly graphic".

"I found these pictures quite gruesome and our decision was that we could not publish these pictures," he said.

"Here was a woman giving birth, it was a breach birth, legs first dangling between the legs of this woman."

The editors’ decision to post copies of the pictures to government ministers to focus their minds on the consequences of the strike did not go down well, the BBC’s Jonah Fisher reports from Zambia.

At a press conference, Zambian President Rupiah Banda condemned the Post for circulating what he called pornography.

Then, this week, the paper’s Ms Kabwela was charged with distributing obscene materials.

"What I see in those pictures is suffering," Sam Mujuda added.

"Suffering of a helpless woman who needed assistance. Unfortunately the president and his ministers and some of his supporters have chosen to ignore the plight of that woman."</p


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