Lisa Kudrow, Andy Richter, Ty Burrell… it’s the Modern Family that could have been. Stephen Falk, head writer of the side-splitting ABC comedy that bested Glee at last year’s Emmy Awards, recently stumbled upon the original cast wish list Modern producers put together as they were pitching the series to various networks and uploaded it [...]
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Ed O’Neil Jane Lynch Diss TV Guide Misquote
December 10th, 2010 |
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For the record, actor Ed O’Neil never made any disparaging remarks about fellow TV star Jane Lynch; but after being misquoted by TV Guide’s Canadian edition, the small screen’s favorite disgruntled shoe salesman’s got plenty of reasons to be peeved with the publication. After initially reporting that the Modern Family star said Jane did not [...]
Ed O’Neil: “Jane Lynch Didn’t Deserve Emmy For Sue Sylvester Roleâ€
December 7th, 2010 |
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Al Bundy just had a “Kanye Moment.” Veteran sitcom star Ed O’Neil believes Glee’s Jane Lynch didn’t deserve the Best Actress in a Comedy Emmy she took home earlier this year for her side-splitting portrayal of Cheerios cheerleading coach Sue Sylvester, TVGuide.ca reported Monday The Modern Family star minced no words when speaking to a [...]
Sofia Vergara Kmart Spokesmodel?
December 7th, 2010 |
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Attention Kmart Shoppers….. From Modern Family bombshell to discount retail darling? Colombian-born actress Sofia Vergara is in chats with Kmart to become the new face of retail giant Kmart, according to reports this week. Kmart execs are said to be courting the heavily-accented Vergara for a deal — worth an estimated $8 million — that [...]
Research into Excel use Posted By : Ed Bolton
November 13th, 2010 |
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An in-depth look at the popularity of Excel usage around the world.
Intelligent use of Excel formulas Posted By : Ed Bolton
November 13th, 2010 |
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Looking at how you can intelligently learn and apply Excel formulas.
Obama Administration Stands Up To Bullies: Schools That Ignore Bullying Could Lose Federal Funding
October 26th, 2010 |
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In a move that one federal education official is calling unprecedented, on Tuesday, The Obama Administration announced a plan of action to hold schools responsible for failure to stop bullying. In the wake of a recent surge in suicides by bullied young adults — particularly those in the LGBTQ community — The White House has [...]
Are You Steering Away From Your Fears?
October 22nd, 2010 |
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Somebody might take your job, you might lose your house, your car might break down, or your partner might cheat on you.
That all might happen. Perhaps it has before and you’re terrified of it happening again? That’s understandable. Fear is a good thing so long as you use it to guide you away from previous mistakes.
Unfortunately, most of us treat the things we fear like the mailbox from Driver’s Ed. Remember?
If you stare at the mailbox you’re going to drive smack into it. Notice it enough so you don’t hit it but don’t stare at it and smash my car up. – Mr. Hsu, Driver’s Ed Instructor
Recognize your fears but don’t obsess or you’ll continue to give yourself more reasons to be afraid! Your peripheral vision is better than you think. Let it keep track of the things you fear so you don’t crash into them.
You know I’m a big fan of short lists. Here’s one you can make that might actually help you reach some of your general goals:
List one of your fears. Beside it, list the polar opposite of your fear. That is, the preferred solution. For example:
Losing my home | Being debt-free
Imagine: You’re driving home from work. You’re exhausted and don’t feel like making dinner even though you’ve got all the ingredients at home. You see Taco Bell. You love Taco Bell. But think of your list. If you’re a smart cookie you’ve got a copy of your list in the car with you.
Are you going to steer toward losing your home or toward being debt-free?
Taco Bell with extra fear sauce tastes absolutely wretched. Do the right thing.
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How “Fun†Can Be Your Best Discipline Technique
October 14th, 2010 |
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Show me any two people who have fun together frequently and I’ll show you a good relationship. People who have regular fun together like each other and most often respect one another. This is a winning combination when it comes to the parent/child relationship. If both parties feel good around each other there will be less animosity, anger, resentment and discord and more ease, comfort, respect and happiness.
To like your kids you must enjoy them regularly. And for them to respond positively to your discipline they must enjoy and like you.
Unfortunately, in the hustle an bustle of everyday life, many of the daily encounters between parent and child go something like this:
“Time to get up.”
“Here’s your breakfast. No TV until you’re done.”
“Got you backpack?”
“You don’t have time to with the dog.”
“Come on, we’re in a hurry!”
“Don’t forget your coat.”
“Love you, bye!”
“How was your day? Got any homework?”
“Leave your brother alone!”
“You have to finish your vegetables if you want dessert.”
“You can play outside for 1 hour. I want you back by 8 o’clock for bed.”
“Did you brush your teeth?” Goodnight.”
Now, how much mutual enjoyment took place on this day? None. The parent saw the child as a bundle of unpleasant tasks, and the child saw the parent as a bundle of directions. No relationship can remain healthy when this kind of interaction is the only feeding it gets.
The antidote? FUN!
When I interviewed over a thousand children around the world as to what it is that their mother or father did for them that made them feel totally happy and loved they said, “Spending one-on-one time with me.”
The possibilities or shared one-on-one fun are endless. Here is a list I’ve compiled over the years after talking to children and families:
1) Going out for dinner on a school night while everyone else stays home
2) Going to a movie
3) Going shopping
4) Going for a bike ride
5) Reading a novel aloud to them
6) Finger painting
7) Baking cookies
8) Playing card/board games
9) Going for a walk in the park
10) Going swimming
11) Doing a collection together (stamps, coins, dolls)
12) Visiting a museum
13) Planting a flower or vegetable together
Shared fun can also come in little doses throughout the day while talking, listening, expressing affection or telling jokes. The impact of these small things is astounding. Let’s redo the scenario described above to illustrate this point. This time, let’s put some FUN into it!
“Unfortunately sleepyhead, it’s time to get.” Dad rubs child’s back.”
“After you demolish your breakfast, you can watch a little TV.”
“Got you three-ton book bag?”
“Rufus sure likes you. Okay, let’ get outta here!”
“You’re moving quicker than I am this morning!”
“Good job remembering your coat, lovebug.”
“Love you, bye!”
“What was the most fun part of your day?”
“Alan, we don’t bug each other like that. You need to stop.”
“Only 1 more piece of broccoli, my sweet, and then we can enjoy a nice dessert together.”
“You can go to Ryan’s house for one hour until 8 o’clock. Have a great time!”
“Hey, welcome home, lovebug! Let’s head on up to the bathroom to brush those teeth.”
“Goodnight. I love you. See you in the morning.”
Lightening up, adding humour and spending some one-on-one time with each child each month is one of the biggest secrets to having a wonderful family life that doesn’t include a lot of stress or need to discipline. Try it and see the difference it can make! Your children will love you for it.
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Erin Kurt, B.Ed, spent 16 years as a teacher and nanny around the world. Now, she applies her expertise as a parenting expert and author of Juggling Family Life. You can learn more about Erin and her simple, loving parenting method, and subscribe to her weekly parenting tips e-zine at ErinParenting.com.
Common Excel problems and methods for resolving Posted By : Ed Bolton
October 14th, 2010 |
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A look at the more common problems you may encounter when using Excel and how you can resolve them.
First Few Cast Members of Celebrity Apprentice Leaked!
October 13th, 2010 |
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The new bundle of contestants for the fourth season of Celebrity Apprentice will be making their way to New York City with production beginning next week. We have three additions to the cast that haven’t been announced yet!
First, we have LaToya Jackson. Ed. Note: Umm…wow.
Second, we have Star Jones.  Ed. Note: Really? Star Jones? You [...]
The #1 Way to Stop Your Child From Driving You Crazy!
October 8th, 2010 |
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Have you ever seen a small child go down to a pond and throw rocks into it? Kids can do that for hours, partly because the big splashes are a sign of their impact. They are the ones causing all the commotion!
How does throwing rocks into a pond relate to what happens at home? If your little child can get big ‘ol you all upset, your upset is the big splash for her. Your upset makes your child feel powerful. Now, don’t get me wrong, her reacting this way does not mean she hasn’t a conscience and will grow up to be a criminal. It’s just a normal childhood feeling: Having all that power temporarily rewards – or feels good to – the inferior part of the child.
Parents I coach who tell me, “It drives me absolutely crazy when she eats her dinner with her fingers! Why does she do that?” have already answered their own question. She may do that because …it drives them crazy.
An important rule, then, is this: If you have a child who is doing something you don’t like, get real upset about it on a regular basis and, sure enough, she’ll repeat if for you.
When it comes to discipline, you want to be clear, concise, and calm. So, what I recommend is that you apply my “Less Talking, Less Emotion” Rule. This point is critical to your effectiveness.
For some parents, turning off the talking and emotion is as easy as turning off a faucet, however for others, they have to bite their lips to get the job done. Have you ever seen that T-Shirt that reads, “Help me. I’m talking and I can’t stop!”?
What else can help? Learning a simple, effective method of discipline that doesn’t involve a lot of talking or emotion. The more you can fall back on a system the better; you’ll be less likely to fall into the same old “talking” rut again and instead, just follow the step-by-step statements.
Get started with a solid system.
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Erin Kurt, B.Ed, spent 16 years as a teacher and nanny around the world. Now, she applies her expertise as a parenting expert and author of Juggling Family Life. You can learn more about Erin and her simple, loving parenting method, and subscribe to her weekly parenting tips e-zine at ErinParenting.com.
4 Ways to Break Free from that Useless Mom Guilt
October 2nd, 2010 |
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“I feel so guilty!†is a common phrase with most moms. We tend to feel guilty about everything, even if we’re doing something away from our kids that’s good for us!
Where does this guilt come from anyway? Dads don’t seem to have the same issue. They are more matter-of-fact about things. When I asked one dad why he didn’t feel guilty leaving his daughter to play by herself while he went to prepare himself lunch, he looked at me strangely and said, “Because I was hungry.†It seems so logical, doesn’t it?
If it’s so logical, let’s look at how to release this useless guilt in a very logical way.
1) Decide if it’s legitimate.
Logically ask yourself if you’ve actually done something you regret. Are you feeling real guilt or referred guilt? If you’ve actually chosen to work late to impress your boss rather than tend to your sick child, that’s real guilt. If your guilt is coming from somewhere or someone else—like the mom down the street who wonders why you’re not volunteering for her committee—that’s referred guilt. Acknowledge that it’s coming from someone else and you’re doing the best you can, then let it go.
2) Spin guilt into a positive action.
Missed your child’s piano recital because you were stuck at the office? Figure out how to do better next time. At the start of the school year log big family or important school events as appointments on your Outlook calendar or Blackberry to make sure there are no conflicts before you make any work commitments.
3) Forgive yourself, but don’t forget.
Life is all about choices. Sometimes we make a bad call, and that’s okay. We’re human. But there’s no reason to obsess over your mistake. Mentally letting yourself off the hook and resolving not to have a repeat episode can lessen anxiety and make you feel more in control of the situation. It’s all about checks and balances. Certain experiences remind you to reassess your priorities so you can pick and choose your commitments.
4) Set priorities.
We’re pulled in dozens of directions, and it seems like no choice comes guilt-free. When you’re working, you feel like you’re neglecting domestic duties, and when you’re spending time with your family, you feel like you should be prepping for that conference call. Even when you’re squeezing in a quick workout, it’s hard to let go of the pressure to play hide-and-seek with your toddler. Set a priority and give yourself a certain amount of time to focus on the task without worrying about other obligations.
We’ve been trained to believe that if we’re not with our kids 24/7 they’re being deprived of eternal love. That’s just not the case. I’ve surveyed thousands of children around the world and all they want you to do are simple things every once in a while.
I heard from one mom that she was walking by an outdoor pool and saw, with envy, a mom swimming laps while her toddler called out for his mommy. There was an older lady, watching her son. This mom then told me, “I thought to myself, “Why am I so willing to skip a workout because my child wants me?†Now she makes it a priority to exercise. She said, “It doesn’t hurt my daughter to be without me for thirty minutes, and it saves my sanity.â€
Breaking free from useless mom guilt is totally possible, but you have to finally make the decision within yourself that you want to break-free. Do you? Or does the guilt serve you in a way? Does feeling guilty and talking about it make you FEEL like a good mother? Think about this and then make that very important decision.
When moms feel confident and at peace with themselves, they are unlikely to make choices or act in ways that cause them to feel guilty. When they feel insecure, exhausted or overwhelmed, they may do things or make decisions that they later regret, or act in haste or anger, all of which lead to guilt.
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Erin Kurt, B.Ed, spent 16 years as a teacher and nanny around the world. Now, she applies her expertise as a parenting expert and author of Juggling Family Life. You can learn more about Erin and her simple, loving parenting method, and subscribe to her weekly parenting tips e-zine at ErinParenting.com.
ACCA Certified Manual J 8th Ed Software vs. All the Rest – Dont settle for less Posted By : tracy14245
September 23rd, 2010 |
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If you are looking to purchase and implement software to calculate your Manual J load calculation you will want to make sure that what you implement is ACCA certified Manual J software. Otherwise, you will not be able to get the full range of benefits inherent with becoming knowledgeable about and using Manual J load calculations. There are other software programs available on the market, but if you do not get one
15 Cases of Bizarre and Mysterious Weather
September 22nd, 2010 |
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Weird, unexplained weather systems have been wreaking havoc on mankind since day one, and most were a lot worse than mere chunks of ice falling from the sky. Don’t believe it? Well, feast your eyes on some of the most mysterious cases of weather ever.
College Data Breaches Underscore Higher Ed Security Challenges
September 3rd, 2010 |
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Security pros talk about the challenges higher education faces when it comes to protecting user data. – Reports surfaced this week that the University of Virginia fell victim to a cyber-attack that stole nearly $1 million. Unfortunately for administrators at colleges and universities, their institutions are just as vulnerable to data breach woes as enterprises.
According to reports, attackers used ma…
5 PHP Frameworks to Help PHP Developer Code Better in Less Time Posted By : Ed Bates
August 31st, 2010 |
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All the 5 famous PHP frameworks have completely changed the scenario of how PHP developer in India previously coded PHP applications for projects related to PHP development in India.
Wyclef Presidential Campaign Ad
August 9th, 2010 |
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On Monday, hip-hop humanitarian Wyclef Jean launched his first viral ad for his campaign for the Haitian presidency in a spot entitled Fas a Fas.Jean entered the race to become president of Haiti last week, jetting into the Caribbean nation where he was born more than 40 years ago, to announce his candidacy for the [...]